The Christmas Invitation

When the angels appeared to the shepherds on that first Christmas night, they brought the very first announcement of the good news of Jesus’ birth. “Do not be afraid,” they said, “for see—I am bringing you good news of great joy for all the people.” That’s evangelism in its purest form: a joyful proclamation that God has come among us in love. 

The shepherds didn’t keep that message to themselves. After hearing the good news, they hurried to Bethlehem to see for themselves what God had done—and then they shared what they had witnessed with others. The Christmas story itself is a story of evangelism: an invitation to come, see, and share the miracle of God’s presence in the world. 

As we approach Advent, we have a similar opportunity. Many people around us—friends, neighbors, coworkers, and even family members—might only consider attending church once or twice a year. But Christmas is a time when hearts are open and curiosity stirs. People are longing for beauty, meaning, and belonging. Your invitation could be the simple act that helps them rediscover faith, community, or a sense of hope. 

Evangelism doesn’t have to be intimidating or awkward. It can be as natural as saying, “Would you like to come to church with me on Christmas Eve?” That small, heartfelt invitation can open the door for someone to encounter the love of Christ in a new way. 

In the Episcopal tradition, evangelism isn’t about pressure or persuasion—it’s about inviting people to experience Jesus in community. When we gather around the Table, we hear again the story of God’s love and experience Christ’s forgiveness and nourishment. Inviting others to join us in that sacred rhythm is central to how we share the good news. 

Sometimes, we Episcopalians hope that our good works or beautiful worship will speak for themselves. And while those things matter deeply, they often aren’t enough on their own. If we truly hope that our neighbors and loved ones will experience the good news of Jesus as we have, we must personally invite them to come and see for themselves. 

Evangelism is often misunderstood as “cold-calling for Jesus”—approaching strangers or debating theology. But that’s not what we’re talking about here. Studies show that invitations within existing relationships—between friends, coworkers, or family—are far more effective and meaningful. Evangelism rooted in relationship, kindness, and authenticity reflects the heart of the Gospel itself. 

This Advent, as you prepare your heart for Christ’s coming, think about who you might invite to church this Christmas. A neighbor who’s new to town, a friend who’s been searching for community, or a loved one who hasn’t been to church in years—each might be waiting for someone to say, “Come with me.” 

Here are a few tips for inviting Someone to church this Christmas: 

Pray first. Ask God to place someone on your heart who might be open to an invitation during Advent. Pray for courage, compassion, and the right opportunity to reach out. 

Be personal. A direct, sincere invitation means more than a social media post. A text, call, or face-to-face conversation can make all the difference. 

Make it easy. Offer to pick up your guest or meet them outside before the service. If your church is holding multiple Christmas services, let them know their options. 

Share what you love. Tell them why Christmas at your church is meaningful to you—the beauty of the music, the candlelight, the message of hope. 

Follow up. After the service, check in. Ask what they thought, invite them back for another Sunday, or simply thank them for coming. 

Be patient and kind. Not everyone will say yes right away—but your invitation might be the first step on a longer journey of faith. 

Advent reminds us that God is coming near—into our world, our lives, and our communities. As we prepare to celebrate the birth of Christ, let’s also prepare to share that good news. The angels’ message still rings true: “I bring you good news of great joy.” This year, may we be the ones who carry that good news into the world, one invitation at a time.