Why I Serve: Light Through a Diocesan Window

There is a nice breeze that gently blows through the downstairs window at the Diocesan Offices, but there is also a pillar made of jagged and pock-marked cinder blocks, symbols that I find best describe my work. I am the downstairs receptionist for the Episcopal Diocese of San Diego’s Offices and the front line for anyone interacting with our office. 

My primary responsibility is to help field calls and help people reach the person they need, but a large portion of my work is with the people we serve on the street. I expected the business calls; what I did not expect were the calls from people in “particular” hotel rooms, or from the streets, or in RVs somewhere, asking if the diocese can spare three hundred dollars. “Just this one time! You’re a church, right? I’ll pay you back next week when I get paid…” I know these calls are scams, but they are impossible to ignore. Like the pock-marked pillar outside my window, they shattered my once-held idealist views about working at the diocese. (As if the Diocesan Offices were an ivory tower). I now know that the Diocesan Offices are as much a part of the Church, serving in the mud and muck that is a piece of all our lives, as any other congregation in the diocese. 

But there are other calls too. Calls that are urgent and often times frantic–people searching for loved ones who had suddenly disappeared who they believed had unraveled through drugs.

One man called looking for his son. He then shared with me his anxiety and deep worry. His son had run away from home and had not been seen or heard from in months. The voice was desperate. I remember imagining the pain this man was feeling. I also felt powerless listening to someone in pain and unable to help. All I could do was listen, to feel with them, to pray for them.  

Then there are many untold stories that break my heart when hearing them directly. 

Leticia is a homeless woman who sometimes comes to the Diocesan Offices to use the phone. When she calls her parents, it sounds like another person. She sounds like a little girl. Leticia is in her mid-fifties! 

Many times, while I sit nearby, I hear this ‘little girl’ begging her mother to come pick her up so she can get a shower and some food. But this little girl, in her fifties, lives a fair distance away from her parents. When she hangs up, a long silence ensues.

From my window, I often see the marks that living outdoors can leave. Working with the homeless at the diocese has opened my eyes to the violence I do not personally know but that I see in the people I serve. I see it in the way women physically distance themselves from the men. I know now that they likely hold a trauma-informed hurt from other men on the street. When I see this, it makes my heart sink.  

But there is hope.

People will surprise you with their buoyancy and resilience. The other day an older woman named Nancy came to the diocese to use the phone, and she was beaming. She had been living on the streets but had recently moved into a home. She was beaming. Through her smile, she told me how grateful she was that the diocese reached out to people in her situation before diving into how different having a home is from living on the streets. It put her in a completely different space inside and out. It was like her body and soul reconciled. She thanked me for using the phone and looked me right in the eye. It was the sincerest expression of gratitude I’ve felt in a long time. Now I was beaming. 

Through my job as a receptionist at the diocese, I see the spark, the light in the unsheltered. I see it in their eyes and their heart. Being a receptionist for the Episcopal Diocese of San Diego’s office allows me to witness the work of Jesus Christ in people. For me, it’s a hopeful and powerful reminder of Christ’s unending love for us all. 

The breeze from my window is nice, but I love the roughness of my pillar too.        




Prepare the Ashes

On Ash Wednesday of 2022, Episcopalians across the four counties that make up the Diocese of San Diego left their church buildings, entered their surrounding communities, and offered the imposition of ashes. This act has come to be known as “ashes to go.” The practice has its detractors. The name itself implies a correlation with the kind of drive-thru food we are all familiar with. It may be a cheap shortcut to spiritual sustenance, but I am convinced that the practice has its merits.

Possibly the greatest merit of Ashes to Go is its honesty. Not only in the words that are shared but in its transparency. How often do we see Episcopalians in parking lots vested in surplices or cassocks, administering an ancient ritual as they navigate concrete curbs and bustling passersby?

In EDSD, we know that how we share the Good News of Christ can make all the difference. By making ourselves publically available to those who would not ordinarily attend an Ash Wednesday service, we’re providing people a pathway toward a deeper understanding of themselves and our church.
Will you join us in sharing your Ashes to Go experience this year? You can submit photos, the number of people served, and a short story here.

Last year in Palm Springs, the Rev. Dan Kline shared an experience as he and the Rev. Jessie Thompson walked by a restaurant in town. “One of the waiters asked for ashes as we walked by,” Dan wrote. Not long after this, the restaurant’s hostess came out asked the two priests to come into the restaurant. “The whole kitchen staff asked to receive ashes,” Dan continued, “they were working a double shift and were not able to make it to services.” Amidst the raucous and smells of a busy kitchen, several individuals were reminded that they are not God … but are in the care of the God who made them and loves them.

As we share this tradition, we often find a surrounding community more ready than we realized to receive the beauty of God’s good news and the rituals of our Church. Whatever the response of our neighbors, I cannot overstate how important it is for our members to learn what it feels like to be Christians “out loud.” 

Of the congregations that participated in Ashes to Go in 2022, each served 61 individuals on average. Each of these beloved individuals would not have otherwise had contact with the Episcopal Church on Ash Wednesday. If all the 42 parishes and missions in the diocese participated in this work that would be over 2,500 individuals receiving a glimpse of the Episcopal Church—our people and particular way of being Christian—that may not have. Is that worth it? I think so. 

If Ashes to Go doesn’t work for your congregation, what would? Could you process around your community on Rogation days or Palm Sunday, inviting neighbors to join the procession? Bless pets in a nearby park on St. Francis’s feast day? Maybe you have other ideas. One of the most radical characteristics of Jesus’ ministry was that he touched people–normal folks, in normal situations. It is critical that we do the same. One way we can do this is by capitalizing on opportunities to be outside of our buildings, within our communities, and transparently sharing who we are with our neighbors. 

This year, we’d like to share your experience of Ashes to Go. Please share your story with the Diocese here.

 




Statement on Gun Violence

Dear Friends in Christ, 

Today, we woke up to news of the third mass shooting in California in 2023. On January 16, a shooting in the Central Valley killed six people, including a teenage mother and her baby, in violence that authorities linked to gangs. On January 21, the Lunar New Year, a shooting at a ballroom dance hall in Monterey Park killed 11 people and injured nine others, impacting a mostly Asian-American clientele. The dance hall was regarded as a community center, and it was therefore a place of safety and joy for the neighborhood, which adds to the sense of grief for that community. And on Monday, a shooter in Half Moon Bay killed seven people at two businesses.  

I grieve. I grieve at the loss of life that cut short the lives of ordinary people living, working, and enjoying a lively hobby. I grieve at the sheer number of people who find violence against others to be the answer to their own misery. I grieve at a society that would produce angry perpetrators and allow them to obtain horrifyingly deadly weapons. I grieve that ordinary people cannot live day-to-day without fearing the kind of violence that erupts with alarming regularity in our country. I grieve that a joyful New Year’s celebration has turned into an occasion of dread of the continuing waves of violence that devastate people and destroy lives.  

I don’t know how to fix this problem.  

All I know is that we followers of Jesus are called to the Way of Love. Love is not a happy emotion, but rather a decision and a sacrifice that asks us to put the welfare of others before our own best interests. Love calls us to recognize, with Jesus in the Beatitudes in this Sunday’s gospel, that God’s blessing rests above all, not on the mighty, but on the meek, the merciful, and the mourners. Love requires us to stand with those who suffer, and work to transform our culture of death into a reverence for life.  

I ask you to pray for those who are victims of violence, for those who might be considering perpetrating violence on others, and for our culture of violence, that God’s love may work to bring life and transformation into all places of hopelessness and hatred.  

And I ask all our congregations, during this Year of Service, to go out into your neighborhoods. Get to know your neighbors. Learn about their hopes, needs, and frustrations. Discover how you can serve and love your communities. Build relationships with the people around you, and help to grow a kinder, more understanding world.   

And pray. Pray for the victims, for the perpetrators, and for our society. Pray for an end to gun violence. Pray for God’s kingdom to shine more brightly through us. Pray that Christ will show us how to show up faithfully in our world and bring peace.  

Educational, Advocacy, and Other Resources on Gun Violence: https://bishopsagainstgunviolence.org/resources/other-resources/ 

Liturgical Resources: https://bishopsagainstgunviolence.org/resources/liturgical-resources/  

O God who remembers, we hold before you all who have died from the plague of gun violence in our land. We remember those who have taken their lives with a gun, those who have died in school shootings and mass shootings, those who have died from gun violence fueled by anger, by abuse, by accident, by domestic violence, or by crime. We lift our voices in sorrow and frustration knowing that every life is infinitely valuable to you. Receive all who have died into the arms of your mercy, bless those who mourn with the hope of eternal life, and strengthen our hearts and our arms to bring an end to this scourge. This we pray in the name of the one who overcame the power of death, your son, Jesus Christ. Amen. 

In Christ’s Name, 

Bishop Susan Brown Snook




A Case for Love

In May of 2021, we began filming. Our crew traveled across the US, on and off, for six months. We traveled to big cities and small farms, to liberal and conservative strongholds, to wealthy and desperately poor locales. We interviewed and filmed hundreds of people from all walks of life: business people, tourists, wealthy beachgoers, those living on the streets, and almost everyone in between. We asked them their thoughts about LOVE, specifically about unconditional, unselfish, sacrificial LOVE. We stepped back and listened. Really listened. To. Every. One. Of. Them. And this is what we heard… 

We heard that we all are pretty much the same. Really, we are. We’re all trying to do right by our families as parents, spouses, children, or loved ones. We’re all trying to figure out what our role on this planet is and want it to mean something. We all want to be loved, genuinely loved, by someone else. If only we could approach one another with that commonality in mind! And then, this is what we saw.

We saw people light up because few (if anyone) had ever asked their opinions about this topic. For those moments, we saw a bit of a transformation in them as they felt heard and valued. Amidst the terrible isolation caused by Covid 19 and the relentless division created by our mostly partisan media outlets and social media giants, people again experienced a taste of humanity through their interaction with a group of filmmakers choosing to explore how LOVE could make things better. 

This film has changed my life. As a child of a Lutheran pastor father and a devout Catholic mother and then marrying an Episcopalian, I’ve been blessed to have seen from an early age that there is so much more that unites us than what divides us. 

That is why we created Grace-Based Films and why we made sure that its work is funded by donors rather than investors. This allows us to tell the stories that people are hungry to see, not just what film studios want to make.  

The film is not 100% complete; it has not been professionally colored, and it has temporary music and sound in it, but the heart of the message is clear. We are so grateful to be able to share this evening with you!  

“A CASE FOR LOVE” is a compelling documentary that takes the viewer on a journey, exploring whether Bishop Michael Curry’s message of unselfish love still exists in our divided world.

Using gripping personal stories and insight from people drawn from all walks of life, both ordinary and notable, “A CASE FOR LOVE” examines acts of unselfish love, both big and small: a kind word, a redemptive community, harsh questioning of preconceived ideas, a commitment to stay when others have fled. Over the course of the film, the viewer comes to realize that the impact of the loving response may be the answer our divided culture is seeking. Change won’t be easy, but we must start somewhere. “A CASE FOR LOVE” hopes to inspire that new beginning.

Do not miss this opportunity to be one of the first to view “A CASE FOR LOVE” in this first-ever public screening on Wednesday, January 25, from 6:00 – 9:00 pm in St. Paul’s Cathedral’s new Guild Room (2728 Sixth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103). Parking is available at the 525 Olive entrance. View the “A CASE FOR LOVE” trailer here




Eight Tips to Enjoy a Book Study

This year, as part of the Year of Service, EDSD is studying one book: The New Parish: How Neighborhood Churches are Transforming Mission, Discipleship, and Community. Churches across the diocese are encouraged to gather in small groups to explore how your church can be known to our neighbors through care, reconciliation, and renewal. After all, a church that cares for its neighborhood is the type of church others want to join.

Bishop Susan Brown Snook said, “This book is an excellent example of how churches can lead local neighborhoods to the gift of God’s love through service and action. I encourage you to join your church’s book group and engage in the life-giving joy of sharing Christ’s love with your neighborhood.”  

Each chapter in The New Parish concludes with questions for conversation and missional practices for congregation members—making facilitating a book study much easier.

In preparation for your congregation’s book study, you will want to begin by selecting a facilitator, a time, and a place to meet. Set up sign-ups for participants and provide information for members to acquire books ahead of time. Promote the book study during worship and invite members to participate. For more small group ideas, you can utilize our Faith to Go resources for small groups.

Here is a suggested book study schedule for reading and discussing each week:

Week 1—Feb. 22 to Mar. 1: Introduction and Chapter 1

Week 2—Mar. 1 to Mar. 8: Chapter 2 and Chapter 3

Week 3—Mar. 8 to Mar. 15: Chapter 4 and Chapter 5

Week 4—Mar. 15 to Mar. 22: Chapter 6 and Chapter 7

Week 5—Mar. 22 to Mar. 29: Chapter 8 and Chapter 9

Ask your clergy about the Diocese-wide Lenten Book Study, and find out when your local group starts meeting. Below are eight tips for enjoying a book study:

  1. Make notes and mark pages as you go
    Reading a book discussion–whether as a leader or participant– is different from reading just for pleasure. Notes help you recall what was significant or call to attention something the author included that you found interesting. Plus, making notes as you go slows down your reading–making it a more intentional time of reflection.
  2. Ask tough questions of yourself and the book
    Don’t be afraid to ask hard questions. Often the author is presenting difficult issues for that very purpose. Look for questions that may lead to in-depth conversations with your group and make the book more meaningful.
  3. Pay attention to the author’s message
    Remember that a good author uses every word in deliberately. Critical reading improves with practice. Try to be aware of what the author is revealing about herself and what she wants you to learn about life from her perspective.
  4. SPEAK UP! Group discussion is like a conversation; everyone takes part in it. Each speaker responds to what the person before them said. Enjoy the spontaneous exchange of ideas and opinions. The discussion is your chance to say what you think about the text. During a book discussion, what you’re really discussing is everything that the author hasn’t said. Look forward to saying, “Gee, I never knew that.” or “Isn’t that interesting.” 
  5. Notice the structure of the book
    Sometimes an author structures a book to illustrate an important concept or to create a mood. Notice how the author structured the book. Are chapters prefaced by quotes? If so, how do they apply to the chapters? How does the sequence of ideas unfold to create a greater understanding? Is it written in flashbacks? 
  6. Share your viewpoint and experience
    Don’t expect to be called on to speak; enter into the discussion with your comments. When disagreeing with other people’s interpretations or opinions, say so and tell why, in a friendly way—considering all points of view are important to group discussions.
  7. Make comparisons to other books and authors
    Compare The New Parish to others books by Paul Sparks, Tim Sorens, or Dwight J Friesen. Or compare it to books by other authors. Often, themes run through authors’ works that are more realized by comparison. Comparing authors’ works may help you solidify your opinions, as well as reveal what you may otherwise miss.
  8. Listen to others
    Try to understand the other person’s point of view. Remember, there are several points of view possible on every question. 



We Believe: EDSD Collaborative Confirmation

Confirmation programs are a profoundly moving and connective experience. When infants and young children are baptized, their parents and godparents promise to nurture them in faith and commit them to the way of Jesus–a life characterized by prayer, service, justice, forgiveness, and love. At confirmation, teenagers are invited to choose this way for themselves. Even youth who do not choose to be confirmed come out of the program profoundly changed.

And yet every journey would be richer with companions on the road. Peers to walk with, laugh with, and share the work, shape the experience and make the challenging days more bearable.

Jesus modeled that for us, too.

It was from this idea that the collaborative confirmation project was born. A hybrid program, with in-person gatherings and online meetings, will provide access to young people across our diocese. Broadening the landscape increases the number of young people in the cohort and means that whether a congregation has a robust youth group or just a few teens that attend each week, they will journey with friends.

At the end of the six-week program, teens will be eligible for confirmation in their home congregation.

We Believe… kicks off on the first Sunday of Lent and concludes in Holy Week; what an extraordinary season to choose to walk more closely with Christ. What an exquisite gift to claim your baptism vows as we journey with Jesus to the cross.

More information and registration can be found through this link.




The Theology of Service

Thus says the Lord of hosts, the God of Israel, to all the exiles whom I have sent into exile from Jerusalem to Babylon: Build houses and live in them; plant gardens and eat what they produce….But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare. Jeremiah 29:4-5,7

[Excerpt from the Bishop’s Address 2022] Jeremiah is speaking to the Jewish exiles in Babylon, telling them that God has a mission for them in the place where God has placed them. We Episcopalians are not in exile, but we are placed by God in communities, and God calls us to seek the welfare of the communities where we are planted. That means getting to know our neighbors. I have declared 2023 as our diocesan Year of Service, and throughout the year, our diocese will learn about and practice what it means to seek the welfare of the communities we inhabit.

I believe that every church is placed by God in a particular community for God’s reasons – because God has a mission in that community. So the church should be truly rooted in the community – but not in a static way. Not in a way that lets the church sit with closed doors and minister only to itself.

In their book, The New Parish, Sparks, Soerens, and Friesen call us back to the very Anglican concept of a parish – not as a self-sufficient and self-governing organization, as we tend to think of a “parish” in The Episcopal Church, but rather as a church that is rooted in its community and responsible for its community.

They write that the term “parish”:

“refers to all the relationships (including the land) where the local church lives out its faith together. It is a unique word that recalls a geography large enough to live life together … and small enough to be known as a character within it. Parish … also functions as an action word because it calls us to the telos, or purpose, of the church – living out God’s dream and caring for the place we are called.”

The authors argue that identifying as a parish rather than an organization – that is, a community rooted in a particular place rather than a group of people called together from disparate places – allows the neighborhood church to stand in solidarity with its neighbors, seeking the flourishing of all.

For a parish to truly stand in solidarity with our neighbors, we need to know our neighbors, which means we need to go out into the community. We do this by getting to know our neighbors, their hopes, their dreams, their disappointments, and the things that keep them awake at night. How can we love and serve our neighbors if we don’t know them?

Our diocesan staff has been working with congregations on a community engagement process. Community engagement is a strategic process of involvement in a particular social group or geographic context (i.e., town, neighborhood, city block) with the purpose of understanding and improving the community’s well-being. During this Year of Service, we will have opportunities to learn a theology of service as well as learn about opportunities to serve others right now. I urge all congregations to participate in training and get to know your parish – the neighborhood outside the church’s walls. Because your neighborhood is your parish.

If we can manage to do these things, slowly but surely, we can transform both the church and the communities around us. We will be truly operating as the New Parish. 

Faced with a time of dissipation, or rapid change that means losing some of our old ways of doing things, we will use our creativity to hang onto what is essential to our identity – Jesus Christ, our Lord. At the same time, we will cast off old structures that don’t work for us anymore – our insularity, our sometime habit of staying separate from our neighbors, our attractional model of church, expecting eager church consumers to come to us. And we will adopt new ways – of being involved in our community, integrated with our community, partners with our community. 

We will be the new parish.

I invite you to join me on Wednesday, January 18, at 6:00 pm for a webinar series I will commence on the theology and practice of service. You can click here for more information. After this four-part webinar series, I invite you and your congregation to participate in our diocesan-wide book study of the book The New Parish. In Eastertide, we will build upon this new understanding as engage in diocesan-wide service projects in which we will learn more about our neighbors and seek the welfare of our communities together.




Episcopalians Say Gay: Coachella Valley Churches to March Together Under One Banner

(Left to right) Revs. Brian Johnson, St. John’s, Indio; Jessie Thompson and Daniel Kline, St. Paul’s, Palm Springs;  and Andrew Butler,St. Margaret’s, Palm Desert

When The Greater Palm Sprin    gs Pride Festival announced its theme for 2022, “Say Gay,” members of the three Episcopal churches in the Coachella Valley responded swiftly and positively to Pride’s blunt rejoinder to destructive legislative efforts around the country suppressing LGBTQ+ identity known as “Don’t Say Gay.”  “The natural response was ‘Episcopalians Say Gay!’ and that became our motto,” said Christopher Davidson, of St. Margaret’s, one of the organizers.

Episcopalians Say Gay!  St. Paul’s, St. John’s and St. Margaret’s parishioner get ready for Pride parade.

The Rev. Jessie Thompson, of St. Paul’s noted, “To join as three churches together and celebrate Pride, we hope the message is clear that your life is a gift that this world needed. All of you. We join together to march and celebrate and pray and represent that you were created in Love and we are glad you exist. There are healing and nurturing faith communities in the Valley who want to welcome you in fully and let you know you are loved exactly as you are.”

“This speaks directly to who we are as Christians,” said the Rev. Andrew Butler, Rector of St. Margaret’s in Palm Desert.  “God made us as we are — and we are straight, gay and every part of the rainbow.  Call us by our name. No one should feel ashamed to speak their identity.  As an Episcopal priest, I am proud to Say Gay.”

Father Brian Johnson of St. John’s, Indio added, “We are excited to work together with the other Episcopal churches in the desert for the 2022 Pride event, Episcopalians Say Gay.”

Members of all three churches inscribed brightly colored ribbons with prayers and affirmations which were added to the Prayer Rainbow, which arched over the churches’ festival booth.

Members of all three churches inscribed brightly colored ribbons with prayers and affirmations which were added to the Prayer Rainbow, which arched over the churches’ festival booth.  Said Debra Griffith, a St. John’s parishioner, “To interact with our fellow Episcopalians and begin relationships that will last to other joint efforts.  It was truly amazing to be a part of coordinating this and I look forward to next year AND other events where the three can become one!”

The Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus performs at St. Margaret’s, Palm Desert, for Light Up The Night, the kick-off event for the Greater Palm Springs Pride Festival.

On the night of October 30 at 6 pm, St. Margaret’s was the site of Light Up the Night, a Pride Kick-Off celebration concert by the Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus.  NBC Palm Springs Manny Dela Rosa, “Manny the Movie Guy,”  served as master of ceremonies.  Audience members enjoyed an organ prelude by Dr. Douglas Leightenheimer, Music Director and Organist at St. Margaret’s.  Following the concert, the audience gathered outdoors for a countdown and illumination of the church building in a giant rainbow stripe.  A festive reception followed.

Light Up the Night.  Left, Rev. Daniel Kline next to Jan Harnik, mayor of Palm Desert.  Center, Manny Dela Rosa, KMIR, master of ceremonies. Revs. Andrew Butler, Brian Johnson, Jessie Thompson, and John Crean in front of the rainbow illumination of St. Margaret’s.

The Rt. Reverend Dr. Susan Brown Snook said of the  three-church Coachella Valley Pride initiative, “As Episcopalians, we celebrate God’s love for all people, and are glad to welcome and affirm our LGBTQ+ siblings. Our diocese is delighted to support the Greater Palm Springs Pride Festival, supporting St. Margaret’s, St. Paul’s, and St. John’s in Episcopalians Say Gay! All are welcome in the Episcopal Church!”




An Archdeacon’s Reflection: Advent, a Type of Discernment

Although not a part of this year’s Lectionary readings, I find it difficult to go through Advent without thinking about Mary’s visit from the Angel Gabriel and  Mary and Elizabeth’s visit. As I was reading this scripture from Luke’s Gospel again, I realized that I was finding similarities between these stories of bringing new life into this world and the new life infused in me once I said yes to discernment for the diaconate.

Elizabeth and Mary said yes to God without hesitation. Me — well, there was hesitation, questioning, and wondering if I was doing the right thing.

Imagine the conversations Mary and Elizabeth had over their visit of three months. Both were saying “Yes” to God to what seemed impossible. Neither knew what to expect during her pregnancy, waiting in darkness to bring forth new life. Kind of like me answering the call from the Holy Spirit, the call to give birth to a renewed life in me–the life of a deacon. There was my visit to the Bishop and studying with the instructors at the School for Ministry. I did not know what to expect but took wise counsel in their wisdom during my formation.

I imagine Mary and Elizabeth spending days talking about their anticipation, about what it would be like to give birth. I suspect both were filled with wonder and fear. I wondered what it would be like to live life as ordained clergy. I feared taking on added responsibility–questioning whether I would know what to do and what friends say about me not putting all my energies into playing pickleball or going on cruises. I said, “Yes, change my life dramatically like Mary and Elizabeth.”

But the people in my life, my husband, family, and those closest to me, opened their arms, welcoming, blessing, and celebrating with me this new life; the life of preparing for and being ordained a deacon. Like Mary, my life changed. I didn’t know the specifics, but I knew God was working in me.

Going through the process of discernment, studies, and prayer, I was affirmed and blessed by those who saw my calling to serve the sick, the dying, the bereaved, and the elderly.

I said ‘yes’ when I was able to hear the words of Mary, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.” (Luke 1:38) The Holy Spirit made it clear to me that this was to be my call, my way of bringing new life into the world.

Like Mary singing about her hopes, her belief in God for a world filled with love that embraces all, this newly ordained deacon had hopes of changing the world–serving the marginalized. And two years later, those hopes are coming true!

This Advent and Christmas season, the deacons in the Episcopal Diocese of San Diego will warm the hands and feet of nearly 1,000 field workers. The Deacon’s Outreach Fund is a new way to give to the work of servant ministry in the diocese, like the ‘Warm Hands and Feet’ campaign.

As Archdeacon, I have the privilege of traveling with Bishop Susan to see you in your churches and ask the question, “Who in this Church demonstrates the qualities of a deacon?” Yes, my dream of growing the number of deacons within the next five years may be bearing some fruit as more and more people are stepping forward and expressing an interest in discernment for the diaconate.

I do not know what is in store for me next, but I know that God’s plan will continue in the way God plans, not my way. Like Mary and Elizabeth, I am here to say ‘yes’ to that plan. May your Advent and Christmas be filled with wonder, anticipation, and perhaps some time of discernment.




Gratefully, with God’s and your help

Recently, a Congolese family who had lived for years in the Nyarugusu Refugee Camp in Tanzania was resettled in the San Diego area. Imagine what it must be like – nine members in this family, English is not their language, and they are placed in a two-bedroom apartment in City Heights which costs $ 4,000 a month! Three of the children are enrolled in school, but the 18- and 21-year-old young adults have aged out of the public school system and must begin to learn English and work on their GED while getting jobs to support the family. Their disabled aunt must be carried upstairs to the only bathroom several times a day. The obstacles facing them must feel insurmountable.

Gratefully, with God’s and your help, RefugeeNet has been giving refugee families such as these a hand-up for nearly 25 years.  Started as a ministry of St. Luke’s in the late 90s responding to the arrival of Lost Boys from Sudan, RefugeeNet is now a nonprofit institution of the diocese serving refugees from east Africa, Syria, Afghanistan, and Myanmar.  

After worship last Sunday at St. Luke’s, this new family met with a RefugeeNet case worker and two congregants who are willing to help the family search for a bigger and cheaper apartment.  We will invite their children to participate in RefugeeNet’s weekly tutoring program and set aside fresh produce and canned food for them at our weekly food distribution (which feeds about 200 families a week!) 

Katherine Bom, our Executive Director, is a former refugee from South Sudan who arrived in San Diego as a teenager in the late 90s.  She knows personally what it’s like to struggle as a new American. 

“The first years were really hard for our family, but knowing that there were people from many backgrounds who cared about us and wanted us to be healthy and succeed made a big difference.  It felt like there was hope,” said Bom.

You are invited to join Bishop Susan at RefugeeNet’s annual fundraising Gala at St Paul’s Cathedral on Saturday, March 18 at 6 pm.  You can register by clicking here.  Gifts from generous friends make up the vast majority of our budget, and our gala is a fun and moving way to meet fellow donors and hear first-hand stories about the life-changing impact of our work.

We also invite you to serve as a RefugeeNet liaison to your church, sharing our upcoming activities and needs with your community of faith.  For more information or to serve in this way, please contact Chris Winger at chris@ernsd.org

And we’d love for you to subscribe to our delicious Mama Africa dinner subscription – enjoy African comfort food once or twice a month and enable former refugee women to earn more money for their families!  (Click here for more info.) Or have them cater your next gathering!

RefugeeNet provides hope, sometimes in short supply, in this new environment for our newest Americans.  Your prayer, time, and resources help to embody this hope that we all yearn for.  With God’s help, it will be born anew during this Advent season before Christmas!